There was a very weird incident happened on me since last 2 years and I thought that everything has come to an END. I have told myself not to think about that ridiculous incident and not to post on my blog here. I have chosen to forgive everything that have done by you. But this weird incident has moved towards me again last few months.
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I would not like to mention her name here, but please bear in your mind that not to take for granted for everything that you have done to me.
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---First of all, I would like to tell you frankly, I'm not interested in your husband since the first day he joined the company. Please always bear in your mind for this and I'm not going to repeat myself for another time.
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---We are just a "Hi-Bye" type colleague before the incident happened on me. I do not know what I have done wrong, added your husband as a "COMMON FRIEND" in my friendster list and also MSN doesn't mean I'm interested in your husband, ok? I believe every human being making friends with others in their daily life, so I never knew that adding a friend in Friendster and MSN can caused so much trouble. Hello!!! I'm not adding your husband as my scandal or future-potential-spouse purpose, ok?
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-----For your information, I have only chatted with your husband for less than 3 times and everytime was not more than 5 minutes, normally I was just asking about something common and some technical help because I'm a noob for some technical knowledge and your husband is an expert for technical things.
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And, I have only sent a friendly greeting in the comment column of frienster and that's a public space, I never thought that is called "FLIRTING WITH YOUR HUSBAND". And, please bear in mind that I never sent any romance or flirtatious messages to your husband, ok? And, I'm never close with your husband, ok? We are just a very common colleague. PLEASE USE YOUR EYES & ALSO YOUR BRAIN TO READ AND THINK THIS CLEARLY AGAIN!!!!
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-----Oh my goodness! What's the century now? If you do not like to see any greeting messages appeared on your husband webpage, so better do not register any account to avoid all other greetings from other ladies out there. No wonder I did not see any other ladies are dropping any messages or comments on your husband page. Probably, all the messages and comments have been removed or deleted by you. And, all other female friends of your husband have been blocked by you.
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-----I strongly believe that we have MEN and WOMEN in our real life as our own friends, it must be something abnormal out there if a person only have friends of same gender in their whole life. But, sorry, non-of-my-business too. I'm not interested in knowing more in detail.
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And, there was a chance that I arranged the accommodation, air ticket and other miscellaneous things when your husband and also other male colleagues outstation to Singapore for a significant meeting. I was just sending some business arrangements messages not only to your husband but also to other colleagues as well. I treat all my colleagues equally (unless they have stepped on my tail before), and normally sometimes, a friendly messages will be followed after all the business arrangements. For me, I think everything should go this way, this's called "Communication" and "Public Relations", I would like to send a greeting or tell a joke after everything have done. I do not see what's the big deal going around there. Could you please do not think too much about this. NOBODY WOULD LIKE TO GRAB YOUR HUSBAND, NO WORRIES, OK? ---
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I still remembered there were a few nights with extremely strong wind (I remembered some of the houses's roof had been blown off last year if not mistaken), I received a sms from my colleague regarding the strong wind and it was only a caring message to ask your friends to be alert and careful when you were outside during night time. And, I forwarded the sms to almost everyone in my phone list and also included your husband.
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----And, it was so shocked that you replied the sms and scolded me with those uncivilized words. Oppps!!! I never expected those kind of words should came out from a mature, church-going and a sweet looking lady like you. I am still saving your messages that you sent to me last year for my self-defense in future if there's a necessary. There were extremely appalled and unreasonable silly, I never expected such an unprofessional conduct should come from a lady like you. I strongly believe in this statement "Never judge a book by its cover". Yeah!!! It's extremely true.
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This was my very first time to encounter such silly and weird problem, normally I'm kinda good with my male friend's partner, and, normally I requested my male friends to bring their partners along for any event. But, sorry to tell you that, from those uncivilized messages that you have sent to me, I have totally get rid from your husband in Friendster and also MSN, even see him around in office, I have to pretend that he's an invisible man, I never wanna talk to him or even greet him anymore and even try my best to keep a distance with your precious husband to avoid myself from your unreasonable suspicious behaviour. I feel this's so stupid, truthly from my heart. Because both of us just pure like a plain water, why have to avoid each other like an enemy. It's weird and stupid!!! But what to do, I have to behave this way to clear myself from your unreasonable accusation.
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That's why most of the gathering or event, whenever I know your husband will turn up, I will surely do not want to turn up to avoid both of you. I do not want to get myself into this kind of unreasonable jealousy anymore. Until the Annual Dinner of a community, one of the organiser, Mr. C, is my good friend and also my colleague, I felt so honour to get invited by Mr. C but I have rejected him a few times, and I believe Mr. C knew the reasons why I was so unwilling to turn up on that night.-----
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And, I knew that Mr. C did something for me and I'm so thankful to him. He tried to explain to you and your husband (one of the organiser too) not to get me into any trouble on that night If I'm willing to turn up because I'm the innocent one in this incident and I'm one of his good friend as well. I was so touched to know that there's a good friend who is so willing to stand out and speak up for me to clear the bad accusation all this while. Mr. C told me that you are willing to apologize with me for everything that you have done to me and willing to shake your hand with me for the bad incident. Frankly, I WAS SHOCKED!!! And, I know it's impossible and unbelievable as well. But, I'm thankful to my good friend for doing such thing for me. But, at last, I never turned up because I was rushing for my works at my office until late night. I missed the interesting event. I need to apologies to my good friend, Mr. C here. Sorry!!!
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----Before that, I saw your husband sent a friend request to me in Facebook but I have rejected his request for getting rid myself to step into this bad accusation anymore. But after the night Mr. C told me about your willingness to apologize to me, I tried to search your goodself from Facebook but I have failed and only managed to find your husband, and I take my courage to add him back as a "Friend" in Facebook. But, I never knew that I'm getting myself to fall into another bad accusation again.
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Oh my goodness! You started your crazy mindset again for accusing me in a very uncivilised way via e-mail. And, I have been patience with you for 2 years of your crazy jealousy over me. What have I done? I done nothing to you and also your husband. You were the one who make the thing into a big issue. I'm only a normal woman who have my own feeling too, you know how to bark at me crazily and unreasonably, of cause I know how to defense myself in a proper way as well. All of your crazy and unprofessional actions to me have exceeded the limitation of my patience. I won't just kept myself shut up in this incident anymore.
----Oh my goodness! You started your crazy mindset again for accusing me in a very uncivilised way via e-mail. And, I have been patience with you for 2 years of your crazy jealousy over me. What have I done? I done nothing to you and also your husband. You were the one who make the thing into a big issue. I'm only a normal woman who have my own feeling too, you know how to bark at me crazily and unreasonably, of cause I know how to defense myself in a proper way as well. All of your crazy and unprofessional actions to me have exceeded the limitation of my patience. I won't just kept myself shut up in this incident anymore.
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When I started to defense myself, of cause I have to get myself ready for everything. I saved all the evidences for what you have done on me as my self-defense in future. Yes! And, I started to consult this incident with a legal advisor. But of cause, I will give you a friendly LAST WARNING on your crazy and unprofessional accusation of your unreasonable jealousy. If you are still behave like the jealousy freaks and barking at me for nothing. I'm so Sorry! Please get yourself ready to receive legalised paper from a legal firm. Certainly, I have phobia to get close or even to make friend with you and I hope we will never meet each other again. And, I believe there are some ladies who are facing the same problem as me are avoiding you as well. And, some of them are hating you so much. Is that worth to shatter your own reputation that caused by your unreasonable jealousy? Think about it.
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My dear lady! I believe you are mature enough to manipulate your green-eyed monster inside your body. I hope you are able to get rid the green-eyed monster from your inner body. Just a soft reminder to your goodself, do not create more imaginary enemy in your daily life. We are so willing to make friend with you, no one is trying their best to grab your significant other as their own spouse. Believe me! I always believe that TRUST and UNDERSTANDING is one of the significant element in a relationship.
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Moderate jealousy can beautify the relationship but if over jealous can lead the relationship into a nightmare.
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I know I'm bad, but I felt so fortunate that your hubby has left our company, I do not need to meet him again in the office. I do not need to avoid him everytime I see him in the office, I do not need to avoid him if there'a any company events. I'm so glad that I got my peaceful life back to the track again. I hope this peacefulness will last until forever. Thank you.
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I had kept this in my heart for 2 years, I feel peaceful and I sincerely hope that you have stayed yourself far away from my life. I love and enjoying my own life without your disturbance and foul words in my life. And, please, leave me alone forever and ever, do not ever make yourself exist in my life once again in future. I hope that you won't contact me again in a sudden just for some imaginary scenes of jealousy that created by yourself. I hope this incident has completely OVER and make a full stop for it.
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THANKS FOR YOUR CO-OPERATION WITH MY FULL SINCERITY.
